
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Before and After aka "I've Reached New Levels of Boring"

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Labels: before and after, Ike
Friday, February 20, 2009
Valentine's Day 2009
Best. Valentine's. Day. Ever.
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Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Things I Will Miss
10. The image of Aidan in my Uncle Tom's Chair. My uncle has a Chair. Many mornings I would wake up and find Aidan rocking back and forth in the Chair with his blankie after Tom has gone to work early. Because he wouldn't dare occupy the Chair in Tom's presence. But out of a dozen options of where he could choose to sit, Aidan loves to sit here.
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Saturday, February 7, 2009
Thanksgiving in February
Back in November, our senior pastor at church, David, asked the congregation to submit "Thanksgiving stories". This is what I submitted, and what was read in church the Sunday before Thanksgiving (that's why it addresses our church family). I have gone back and read this several times over the last few months, to remind myself of just how fortunate we really are. It is very easy to throw myself a giant pity party, when the reality is that our family is very blessed indeed:
This year our family has much, much to be thankful for. It has been an eventful year, to say the least. A year in which we are thankful for the way God has provided for us. Last July and August, I remember money being tight for our family. I work as a registered nurse, and the nature of my position is one where I "fill in" when the emergency room is short staffed. I remember not working as many shifts as I thought I needed to work to help pay the bills. I remember praying to God that He would continue to provide for our family as He always had in the past, expecting that surely the shifts would come. Early in the morning of September 13, as Hurricane Ike was ripping through the Houston area, a 60 foot tall water oak tree was ripping straight through the roof of my house. Ike's subsequent rainfall fell directly into our house, leaving significant water damage to about 75% of our home. Our van was also totaled as it sat in our driveway, in direct path of a large branch from this tree. At last estimate, our house sustained $130,000 worth of damage. Miraculously, our family was completely unharmed, as we slept, along with my sister-in-law and her family, on the opposite side of the house. We are thankful that we were home, as we were able to move many of our belongings to safety and prevent further losses.
God has been unfailing in the way He has taken care of our family through this. This year, we are so thankful for our church family at Northside. You have come to our home in the middle of a raging hurricane to help. You have housed us. You have fed us meals. You have clothed us. You have watched our children for us while we met with contractors and insurance adjusters. You have loaned us a vehicle to use until we were able to replace our ruined van. And you have prayed for us. For our home, for our sanity, and for the health of our long-awaited unborn child (a whole 'nother Thanksgiving story of itself). And God has been faithful. With a few "pregnant-hormonal-woman meltdowns" aside, our family has felt the overwhelming "peace that passes understanding" that only comes from God. We know that our family is safe and taken care of, and that our house will someday be ready for us to live in again.
We are also eternally thankful for my aunt and uncle's endless hospitality and patience. It is my prayer that someday I can say to a family, "Welcome to our home. Stay forever if you need to. If you need food, just put it on the grocery list, we'll take care of it. And the cleaning lady will be here Friday."
As of now, our house remains unlivable while repairs slowly continue. But we have learned patience. And we know that God will always provide for us. And those extra shifts at work? They never did come. But these days we don't have much of an electric bill to pay. Or a gas bill, or grocery bills for that matter. And who am I to tell God how to answer my prayers? I would have never in a million years thought that God would work through a hurricane and an oak tree to take care of our family.
By the way, this time next week we should be back into our "really real house" as Dane calls it. Yay!!
Posted by Mandy at 5:41 AM 1 comments
Labels: Ike
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Open Letter to my Contractor Who Shall Remain Nameless
(if this makes no sense to you, please read the postings in the "Ike" category on my sidebar.)
Dear Sir:
Thank you for picking up your telephone on the Sunday morning following Hurricane Ike this past year. That is the only reason I hired you to fix my house after the damage it incurred. I was a hormonal, homeless, desperate woman with very limited cell phone service at the time, and I was very grateful to make contact with someone who knew how to build things.
But most days I wake up and wish you had not picked up that phone. You know, that day almost five months ago. Yes, five months ago, when you took on the job. The job that still isn't finished. Most days I wake up and wish I had not been so frantic and impulsive and had the clarity of mind to wait a few more days post-hurricane for businesses and other contractors to open up shop again, so that I could have hired a competent person instead. I'm not trying to be ugly, I just do not enjoy being lied to. Over and over again. You seem like a very nice person, and your family seems lovely. We would probably all get along just fine and dandy as long as we never have to do business together again.
A couple of other things I would like to mention:
--I wish you would have read the paperwork I gave you outlining exactly what insurance was going to cover, instead of just sticking it in my file. Then perhaps we would not have wasted 2 months because you didn't realize they didn't want to replace the roof (the roof has been replaced).
--Please explain to me why it is surprising to you that more than one coat of paint is required when you are painting walls. Especially when you are painting dark colors. The insurance paperwork outlined that they were paying for two coats of paint to be applied, so please act surprised. Please do not tell me "The job won't be done when we said it would be done because NOW WE'RE GOING TO HAVE TO PUT ANOTHER COAT OF PAINT ON". Um, have you ever painted before? Of course red walls and green walls and blue walls are going to need two coats of paint. And while we're on the subject of painting, is it possible to have more than just the one guy painting the entire interior of the house? The job may get done a bit quicker if he had couple more sets of hands.
--Please tell your workers to please not throw away things like shower recesses and light fixtures when we buy them and leave them at the house for your workers to install.
--Thank you for fixing our crown molding. It looks much better now.
--When you tell us to pick from a small selection of carpet that is both in our price range and "in-stock", please make sure said carpet is actually in-stock. And please make sure that the second carpet that we pick out because you tell us is "in-stock" is actually in-stock. Because now we are having our third choice installed because the first two carpets will not be "in-stock" until the end of the month.
--See those apartments going up on the street outside of my neighborhood? Know why they are being built so fast? BECAUSE MORE THAN TWO PEOPLE ARE WORKING AT A TIME. Should it bother me that an entire apartment complex is being built from the ground up faster than my house is being made livable?
Thank you for letting me vent, Mr. Contractor-Who-Shall-Remain-Nameless. Please keep in mind that though I am extremely frustrated with you, I pray for you on an inconsistent basis. I pray that your weeks are slow and relaxing, so that there is ample time for you to finish this stinkin' job already.
Sincerely,
Homeless and Pregnant
Posted by Mandy at 8:32 AM 3 comments
Labels: blogging is cheaper than therapy, Ike
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Ramblings
It's been a bit since I last posted, and since I have nothing insightful to say, I thought a basic list of ramblings would be appropriate.
Posted by Mandy at 4:08 AM 4 comments
Labels: Dane and Aidan, Ike, three
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Brief Break and an Update
I finally sent my broken Mac in to have the screen repaired, and I should have it back by this time next week, so my computer access is a bit limited until then. Perhaps I'll take up a hobby in the meantime. Like sewing or basketweaving. I'll let you know how that works out.
Also, I was just looking at the picture I have at the top of my blog and thinking how that family looks nothing like us now. Gone is the wicked tan I got for a wedding I went to in July. The 2 and 4 year olds in the picture are now 3 and 5, and I have an almost-7-month baby belly now. (Okay, some of the belly is cheeseburgers. But a lot of it is baby.) And the tree behind me in the picture doesn't stand there anymore, because it crashed through our house a few months ago. And the backyard? Our family hasn't seen it since September.
We expect to be back in our house "within a month", as our contractor has been telling us for the last 2 weeks. We'll see. Brandon has been picking out tile for our new remodeled master shower, and they tell us insulation and drywall will go in this week sometime. Over the next few weeks we will be deciding on things like what refrigerator to buy (any suggestions? We are not going with stainless steel.) and picking out a new mattress and furniture for our bedroom. This should be more fun than it is, but frankly, we weren't wanting to redecorate. The majority of our worldly possessions still live in a storage facility, and TiVo, we miss you most of all.
So that's a bit of what's going on. The kids are back in school and loving it, and Brandon went back to work this week after an almost 2 week break. I'm off to work on my basketweaving now, I'll catch you on my "new" Mac!
Posted by Mandy at 6:29 AM 1 comments
Labels: Ike
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Frequently Asked Questions
These days, I get asked quite a few questions. Well, here are some answers for inquiring minds:
Posted by Mandy at 7:05 AM 0 comments
Labels: brain dump, Ike
Saturday, September 27, 2008
I'm Sorry, Miss Tiffany
The kids went back to school this past week after a week long Ike-induced hurrication. When I picked Dane up on Tuesday, here is the conversation we had in the car:
Posted by Mandy at 8:17 PM 2 comments
Labels: conversations with Dane, Ike
Friday, September 19, 2008
Survived Ike
We are alive and well after Hurricane Ike, I just wish I can say the same for my house and van (yes, "and van"). A big giant tree uprooted in our backyard and crashed through our house very early on Saturday morning. Fortunately, we (and Val, Izzy, and baby Joel), were having a big slumber party downstairs when the tree came crashing through our bathroom, closet, and bedroom. Part of the tree broke off and hit our van, which was parked in the driveway.
Posted by Mandy at 2:25 PM 8 comments
Labels: Ike
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Hotel Ike


Need a place to hang your coat? Just put it in the Master Closet. Two brand new skylights were just put in for your coat-hanging enjoyment. Just make sure it's a rain coat you're hanging, because it is very wet here at Hotel Ike.
Before you turn in, please enjoy a unique dining experience in our Dining Area. Located directly beneath the Master Bathroom, our Dining Area boasts tree-side views, ceilings that just look like they're caving in, and a lovely wet tile flooring.

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